The foundations

This journey began with a heartbreak that reshaped my world. I lost my mum to cancer when she was far too young, and far before I realised how many conversations we’d never had.

There were moments I didn’t know to ask about, wisdom I didn’t know I needed, and pieces of her love and guidance that left with her. That absence has stayed with me, not only as a wound but as a reminder of how much a mother holds that no one else can replicate.

Now, as a mum myself to two little ones, that loss has taken on new meaning. Every day, I discover something beautiful and fleeting about my children, the sound that calms them, the way they want to be held, the tiny rituals that make them feel safe and adored. These are things only I know right now, things that live in the quiet moments between us. And the thought of those tender details disappearing if I’m no longer here has stirred something deep within me.

This space was created from that feeling - from love, from grief, from the fierce desire to protect my children even in the unimaginable. My hope is to help other families do the same: to preserve the heart‑knowledge that matters most, to speak the unsaid while there's still time, and to ensure that if the day ever comes when we can’t be there, the people left in charge will know exactly how to cherish the little hearts we love beyond words.